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Commandment #9
Which country employ “train pushers” to help commuters squeeze into packed trains?
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In This Issue
Today’s Ladder: Your network is your future.
Takeaway: Connections create careers.
Resources: I took the long road so you could take the fast lane.
ICYMI: In case you missed these reader favorites...
Career Ladder Intel: Career news and trends you can’t afford to ignore.
"Your future moves at the speed of your relationships."
Today’s Ladder:
Your Network Is Your Future
Picture this:
Two people with similar skills and work ethic…
One keeps their head down, hoping their work speaks for itself.
The other builds real relationships, shares ideas, and supports others.
Guess who gets the promotion, the raise, or the next opportunity?
It’s almost always the second.
Think of your network as a bridge.
Each connection is a plank that carries you closer to your next opportunity.
Without those planks, the gap feels impossible to cross.
With them, you don’t just walk… you can sprint.
The reality is, your future isn’t built in isolation.
It’s built through people.

Doors Open Through People
Here’s how:
Step 1: Start Small and Genuine
Networking isn’t about collecting business cards. It’s about real conversations.
Example: Instead of “networking” at a big event, invite a colleague for coffee. Ask about their projects, their challenges, or their career path. Authentic curiosity opens doors.
Step 2: Give Before You Ask
People remember those who add value.
Example: Share a helpful article, introduce someone to a contact, or congratulate a peer on their win. These small acts of generosity build trust, making people more likely to support you when it counts.
Step 3: Stay Consistent
A strong network isn’t built overnight. It grows with steady care.
Example: Set a reminder to check in with three people a month. A quick message - “Thinking of you, how’s that project going?” - keeps connections alive without feeling forced.

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Takeaway:
Connections Create Careers
I can still picture it.
Fluorescent lights buzzing above.
Stacks of reports piled high on my desk.
Me, hunched over, buried in projects and reports.
Across the hall, my coworker was laughing with our VP, coffee in hand.
She wasn’t buried in spreadsheets.
She was building relationships.
A few months later, she was promoted.
Meanwhile, I was still grinding quietly in my office.
That stung. But it also woke me up.
I realized something no one teaches you in school:
Careers don’t grow just by effort.
They grow by visibility, relationships, and presence.
Hard work matters. But that isn't the whole story.
That’s why I believe in Career Commandment #9:
Your network is your future.
If you’ve ever felt invisible despite your effort, this is for you - download the rest of The 10 Career Commandments here.
Resources:
Give and Take: Why Helping Others Drives Our Success - this bestselling book by Adam Grant examines how professional success depends on interactions with others and the impact of giving vs. taking in networking.
The Art Of Networking: Blending The Personal and Professional - this TEDx video explores how blending personal and professional relationships can add value and provides tangible strategies for connecting across industries.
ICYMI: Links to recent issues
💵 Scared to Negotiate Your Salary? Here’s How to Get What You Deserve
📣 Mastering Feedback: The Do’s and Don'ts Every Leader Must Know
💱 Think You Know Your Leadership Style? Your personality might say otherwise.
Career Ladder Intel:
According to the latest jobs report, the U.S. labor force has contracted for three consecutive months! - Read more
More U.S. companies plan to slow hiring in second half of 2025- Read more
The Bureau of Labor Statistics reported that roughly 400,000 skilled trade jobs are unfilled in America! - Read more

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Dr. Lex ✍️
Founder, Career Ladder | Career MBA
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In Japan, especially at Tokyo’s busiest stations like Shinjuku, station staff or part-time workers, called oshiya, have been responsible for helping commuters board trains by gently (and sometimes firmly) pushing them inside so doors can close.
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