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Stop Underselling Yourself: The Case for Backing Your Ask
What percentage of jobs are obtained through networking rather than submitting a resume?
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In This Issue
Today’s Ladder: The reason why you’re underpaid.
Takeaway: Underselling yourself? End that today.
Resources: I did the digging. You get the gold.
ICYMI: Popular issues you may have missed.
Career Ladder Intel: What’s changing in the world of work?
"Every time you minimize your impact, you train others to do the same."
Today’s Ladder:
This Is Why You’re Underpaid
I used to shrink my accomplishments.
“Nothing major.”
“Just doing my job.”
“I was just lucky.”
And then I wondered why I wasn’t moving up.
Every time I downplayed my results, I thought I was being humble.
I didn’t want to seem arrogant. I didn’t want to “brag.”
But here’s the problem:
If I didn’t believe in my own value, why would anyone else?
The turning point?
A mentor told me this:
"If you downplay your value, don’t be surprised when others do too."
That one sentence changed how I showed up.
Since then, I studied the frameworks the top 1% of professionals use to lead with value.

Sell the Value, Not Yourself
Here’s the framework I use now whenever I ask for more:
✅ Start with results. I highlight the wins I’ve delivered. Numbers. Outcomes. Impact.
✅ Connect to the bigger picture. I show how my work supports the team or company vision.
✅ Make the ask clear and confident. Not “if it’s okay…” I say: “Based on my contributions and the value I’ve delivered, I’d like to talk about a raise/promotion.”
Sell the impact, not your identity.
Sell the results, not your résumé.
Sell the change you create, not the hours you spend.
Sell what gets better because you’re in the room.
You are not the product. Your result is.

Takeaway:
Underselling? That Ends Today.
You’re the quiet anchor in your office.
The one who stays late, fixes what others miss, and picks up the ball other people dropped.
Everyone depends on you. But no one really sees you.
Your quietly hoping someone will notice. That the results will speak louder than your silence.
I know that hope. I lived it.
For years, I stayed in the background. Overdelivering, under-claiming. Until the day I watched someone else get promoted for work I had quietly carried.
That moment burned.
Not just because I was overlooked… but because I realized I had taught them to overlook me.
Silence, I learned, doesn’t signal strength. It signals invisibility.
So I made a shift.
I started sharing the why behind my wins. I claimed my seat at the table—not with arrogance, but with clarity.
And things changed. Recognition followed. So did growth.
If you’re tired of being the best-kept secret in your workplace, you don’t have to stay stuck. There’s a way to speak your value—clearly, confidently, and without compromise.
You just need the right tools.
Resources:
How to Brag at Work Without Being Obnoxious: The Art of Self-Advocacy - one of the greatest tragedies in the workplace is when your contributions go unknown and unrecognized. This Youtube video discusses how to fix that and learn how to brag at work.
Self-Advocacy: Your Guide to Getting What You Deserve at Work - this book presents a practical guide that anyone can use to master self-advocacy and also equips leaders with tools to train others effectively.
ICYMI: Links to recent issues
🙋🏻♂️ The Best Framework I’ve Seen… For Leading Without a Title
💵 How to Ask for a Raise (And Actually Get It)
Career Ladder Intel:
The gap between what Americans earn and how much they need to bring in to achieve a basic standard of living is getting wider. - Read more
Jobless claims have edged down slightly, indicating that most businesses are holding onto workers even as economic uncertainty grows. - Read more
Over 64,000 retail jobs have been cut in the first four months of 2025. Notable bankruptcies and downsizing at companies like Jo-Ann Fabrics, Party City, and Big Lots have contributed to these losses. - Read more

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Dr. Lex ✍️
Founder, Career Ladder | Career MBA
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